A friend from my old UW fellowship organised a small gathering to celebrate another b/s’ birthday, I was more than happy to join because I haven’t met up with them for months, if not years.

It just so happened that I was the only guy in the meet up, I was feeling a little awkward when they started talking about finding boyfriends.  Though it was kind of interesting (and probably advantageous) to know what girls are looking for in a boyfriend, I honestly felt odd and out of place. ?  It got even more embarrassing when one of them started praising me to a point where it seemed like I was being flirted at.  I told them that I have a “target” at my church, which was not entirely a false statement.

Despite the awkward moments, it was good catching up with old fellowship b/s.  As I shared with my fellowship earlier this month, it’s essential to offer time to build up strong b/s relationships, relationships that will last till eternity as long as we don’t stray away from the road of faith.